Jewish Wedding Invitations: Hebrew Dates, Wording and Shabbat Timing
Our Sweet Day Team, October 25, 2026
A Jewish wedding invitation often carries both the civil and the Hebrew date, names the couple's parents, and sometimes the grandparents. Here is how to set one up so guests know when to arrive for the chuppah and what follows.
Opening Words
Many invitations begin with a blessing or a verse, for example from the Song of Songs: "I am my beloved's and my beloved is mine". Put it in the opening line.
Wording From the Families
- "Together with their parents, Rachel Cohen and David Levi invite you to celebrate their marriage"
- "Mr. & Mrs. Cohen request the honour of your presence at the marriage of their daughter Rachel to David, son of Mr. & Mrs. Levi"
The Hebrew Date
Write the Hebrew date below the date in the invitation text, for example "the twelfth of Sivan, 5787". Check it with your rabbi.
Saturday Night Weddings
A wedding on a Saturday begins after Shabbat ends, so the time changes with the season. Give the exact time of the ceremony, not "after sunset".
The Program
The Program section sets out the bedeken, the chuppah, the yichud and the reception, so guests know when to be seated.
Dietary Needs
Every reply can include dietary needs. Mention if the meal is kosher in the questions section, so guests can ask about anything else.
Seating and Tables
Use the seating planner for the reception tables; guests see their table on their invitation when you reveal the plan.