Wedding Invitation Wording Guide: Examples for Every Tone
Our Sweet Day Team, February 21, 2026
Finding the right words can be the hardest part of the invitation. Here are examples for each part of a wedding invitation, and where each goes in the Our Sweet Day editor.
The Opening Line
This appears above your names. Examples:
- "Together with their families"
- "With joy and gratitude to God"
- "Together with our parents"
The Invitation Wording
This follows your names.
*Traditional formal:*
"request the honour of your presence at the celebration of their marriage"
*Religious ceremony:*
"invite you to witness and celebrate the Sacrament of Holy Matrimony"
*Modern:*
"would love for you to celebrate with them as they get married"
Including Your Parents
Many couples name both sets of parents on the invitation. Add them under each of your names in the Words tab, for example:
"Daughter of Mr. & Mrs. Arthur Reyes"
"Son of Mr. & Mrs. Raymond Santos"
Closing Words
A short note at the end of the invitation:
- "Your presence is the greatest gift we could ask for."
- "We can't wait to celebrate with you."
- "With love and thanks, see you on our wedding day."
The Hashtag
Keep it short and easy to spell: your names plus the year, or a play on your surname.
RSVP Wording
Use the note above the RSVP form for the line guests see before they reply:
- "Kindly respond by [Date]." — formal
- "Please let us know by [Date]." — standard
- "We've reserved seats in your honour. Please reply by [Date]." — warm and clear about seating
Dress Code Wording
Write it in the attire note and add up to 6 colours:
- "Black tie" — tuxedos and formal gowns
- "Formal" — suits and long gowns
- "Cocktail" — suits or jackets; cocktail dresses
- "Garden or beach formal" — light fabrics and comfortable shoes
- "Smart casual" — relaxed, no jeans or trainers
Gifts Wording
Many couples prefer cash gifts. A gentle way to say it:
"Your presence is our gift. If you wish to give something more, a contribution toward our new home would be appreciated."
Tips for Better Wording
1. Keep each part short; guests read on a phone
2. Match the tone to the wedding: formal words for a formal wedding
3. Spell every sponsor's name correctly and confirm their titles
4. Read it aloud once before publishing
5. Fix mistakes any time; with a digital invitation, guests always see the current version